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I wanted to make a post looking back on the last year – because 2011 has been an important one for me, with new jobs, new friends, new lifestyles, and all sorts of changes (for the better). So, without further ado — my major highlights, accomplishments, and thrills from the past 365 days, in alphabetical format (because I’m a huge nerd like that!)
Accepted a freelance blogging position with The Toronto Star for the “Speak Your Mind” site during the 2011 Provincial election
Bought a Kindle, which on its own is not that exciting but it’s meant I’ve started reading a TON again; including (almost every) lunch break.
Curbed my spending habits and have been successfully budgeting (and mostly sticking to it) for three months now
Decorated (and baked!) 100 cupcakes and a bride’s cake – my first wedding order!
Edited, scripted, and shot my first corporate marketing video for a client
Forced into getting a new car (hi Ol’ Red!) when mine died while driving on the 401 – which was terrifying, to say the least
Got my butt moving (literally) by joining Booty Camp Fitness – life changing, and I’m still going! I love it.
Have been successfully budgeting (and mostly sticking to it) for three months and counting
Improved my life in a number of ways (might sound like a cop-out, but it’s true!)
Joined an awesome and empowering women’s group in Toronto
Kissed the Blarney Stone! {Feb 27, 2011} – a bucket list item
Launched a new website design (you’re looking at it!)
Made new friends with similar hobbies thanks to meetup.com :)
Navigated my way through Ireland alone – including very, VERY narrowly making my bus to Dublin
Organized and ran a charity event {Dec 10, 2011: Help-Portrait}
Published a tutorial on photojojo.com
Quality time spent with three generations of ladies during the Royal wedding
Revamped my eating habits and feel healthier and better every day
Started a new full-time writing job
Travelled out onto – and saw up close – the ocean for the first time I can remember
Understood why so many people love traveling along – after doing it myself for the first time {Feb. 26-Mar 2: Cork & Dublin, Ireland}
Visited Stonehenge {Feb 24, 2011} – another bucket list item
Whale Watched in Boston {Oct 9, 2011}
eXplored another country (overseas) for the first time {Feb 17-Mar 3: England, Paris, & Ireland} (x is a hard letter, okay? ;)
Yoga’d my way through my first (and second, and third… etc!) Hot Yoga classes. I’ve always wanted to try it, but was nervous (and for no reason) – Hot Yoga is awesome.
Zapped 12 lbs – 8 more to go to reach my goal weight :)
All in all, 2011 was a good year for me. It started off looking like it might have been otherwise, but in the end – I’d say it was a good one. One of the better years, actually. I have a lot on the go right now and am proud of (and happy to be!) where I am… and am very excited to see what 2012 might hold (you know, besides the end of the world on December 21 ;)
What were your major accomplishments and highlights this year? I’d love to hear them.
Last week, The Boy and I went to Tim Hortons, like we do, uh, a lot (admittedly, likely more than we should) — and we almost always order the exact same coffee: large regular.
Why mess with a good thing?
But this time, we were there with a mission – a messing with a good thing mission (mistake #1) – because you see, Tim Hortons recently released a whack of specialty drinks in an effort to compete with Starbucks, class it up, take more of our money.
We ordered the same thing (yeah, yeah, we’re a lot alike, okay?) – a large earl grey tea latte with a shot of vanilla. Not hard to make, ordered at other coffee joints by me – and others, I’m sure – numerous times without problem. We knew we were rolling the dice a little with the shot of vanilla, but figured hey, we’ll give it a whirl.
What we got was not even a latte.
Three times.
Store #1, Employee #1: We waited a good 5 minutes for our order to be taken – because the person in front of us was telling the employee he made her drink wrong. We both assumed she was being demanding – she was giving him attitude, at least (mistake #2). As it turns out, he just was an idiot who didn’t know a) what he was doing b) how to listen to a customer or c) how to ask for help.
Tea Latte #1 = Tea with french vanilla cappachino dumped in it.
Store #1, Employee #2: We go through the drive-thru, explain the order is wrong, ask them to fix it. The (very friendly) employee explores the problem, tells us the original employee put the french vanilla capp in, apologizes, hands us the “fixed” lattes. Happy, we leave and don’t bother checking our order (mistake #3).
Tea Latte #2 = Tea with a SHOT OF ESPRESSO IN IT.
I wish I was kidding. We both tasted it a few times, yeah, there was DEF a coffee flavour in our… tea.
Did I mention both times, there was no milk?
Last time I checked, steamed milk is the point of a latte.
Already long gone from that store, we stopped at ANOTHER Tim Hortons. Well aware the chances of us getting the drinks replaced at a different location (since they’re franchised) were slim, we resolved to buy another if they could make it correctly.
Store #2, Employee #3: Doesn’t know how to make a latte, doesn’t know how to work the machine, and isn’t even sure the machine is set up yet. Face palm.
We give up. Not huge deal, but $6 and a LOT of time wasted.
Actually, we also gave up and bought a medium hot chocolate and coffee instead at the final location – so in reality we spent almost $10 for something that normally would cost half that.
The worst part is, irritated, I tweeted, Facebooked, and emailed Tim Hortons about it – I wanted to know a) if they make their lattes differently from the rest of the world, and b) if they would please refresh their employees on how to, uh, make their new specialty drinks before launching them.
No reply.
This is not my first attempt at contacting Tim Hortons customer service online – I had an issue with Cold Stone Creamery in the summer and they were less-than-available (and helpful) then too.
Tsk, tsk Tim Hortons.
I love ya, I’ve always supported ya, but this is getting ridiculous. Maybe if you cared about your customers a little more, you wouldn’t have to launch gross lasagnas and unavailable, potentially non-existent speciality coffees to retain and gain customers.
So, on that note… I had originally been planning on reviewing the new lattes and giving away a Tims card so a reader could try ‘em out; but since they can’t seem to get their act together I’m giving away a $10 Starbucks card instead — so you can enjoy a REAL latte.
Here’s how you can win: CONTEST CLOSED! See below for the winner announcement :) Thanks to all who participated!
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The contest will close next month on Friday, January 13th at 11:59PM EST. I’ll be announcing the lucky Starbucks card winner shortly after.
WE HAVE A WINNER!
Congrats to Sarah, my fellow news junkie and boot camp enthusiast of sarahmillar.com
Enjoy your extra hot latte, Sarah!
If you know me, you KNOW I love cupcakes (and baking cupcakes, for that matter). So, that being said – does my Halloween costume this year really come as a surprise?
Okay, maybe the cupcake costume was more of a surprise than the year I was Hannah Montana (because, come on, a Hannah Montana costume is way easier to put together ;) And yes, I most certainly did force nicely ask The Boy to dress up as a baker for me so we could be ubervom cute together.
Basically, I doctored the heck out of some Value Village scores – including turning the bottom skirt part of a little girl’s dress (yup, all class) into a poofy, icing looking top. What? It was much easier than sewing one from scratch… especially considering I had to call in the troops (Hi Sister!) every 30 seconds (seriously) to unjam the sewing machine for me.
I also hot glued rolled up pipe cleaners all over it, because what’s a cupcake without sprinkles?
And, of course, I needed an icing “peak” – complete with a cherry on top – which (I swear) is what that funny looking thing on my head is.
I think it turned out pretty well – and these cute heels I stole inherited from my mom were a dead match with my small-children’s-dress-turned-shirt. Score.
I also made cupcakes to bring to my friend’s Halloween party (and devoured a few) which led to an, ahem, much later realization that I was, indeed, a Cannibal Cupcake. The horror.
I had baked for a wedding earlier that weekend (more on that later), and had leftover purple, green, and white (a TON of white) icing, which led to these little guys:
How cute, right? I can’t decide if I like the Mummy or Monster better – but when I see all the little Mummies together I just love it.
They were a huge hit, too.
Oh, and finally – what would a Halloween post be without a pumpkin?
Nothing, that’s what.
Too bad it wasn’t a cupcake pumpkin – which I JUST thought of right this second… maybe next year. Someone remind me, okay? ;)
I’m really excited about an event I’m planning with the Durham Photography Group called “Help-Portrait”. In fact, I’m so excited that I can’t contain my urge to blog about it any longer.
So, what exactly is Help-Portrait?
Help-Portrait is, in essence, a way for us photographers and volunteers alike to donate their time and give back to those less fortunate in our community by doing what we do best: making people feel beautiful, and capturing that moment on film. As photographers, we usually take photos; but this event is all about giving them. Giving them to orphans, single moms and dads, underprivileged families, the elderly, and anyone else who might not otherwise be able to have a professional portrait taken.
Help-Portrait is a worldwide event, and, on December 10th a huge number of communities will be taking part. And, thanks to a wonderful group of volunteers, I’m proud to say for the first time, Durham Region is on that list.
I’m thrilled to be involved as the group’s marketing and sponsorship lead; meaning I have the daunting task of raising the money we need to go ahead (approximately $2,000) and getting the word out to the community.
We have a solid core group of volunteers, but of course – can always use more hands.
If you’re local to the GTA, and are interested in getting involved (or you work for, or know, a company who may be interested in sponsoring us) please get in touch with me or join up with our local group.
And, for those of you who are visiting from other communities – consider checking the global list on the Help-Portrait site to see if there is an event running near you. We can always use more helping hands on these sort of events.
In the past, the portraits have strictly been given to participants – never shared online, in portfolios, or anywhere – but they’re looking at changing that this year (with photo releases, of course) and additionally allowing participants to, if they choose, become the photographer. The folk over at Help-Portrait did a mini event this past weekend, and the stories and photos shared on their blog are truly touching.
We’re still ironing out the final details of the Durham event (and which, if any, new aspects we’ll adopt in our virgin year) but so far I’m so impressed with the diverse group of people in Durham who have pulled together to make this happen: a number of photographers, a project manager, a few technical people, folk from the Salvation Army (who are graciously donating the most important thing – our space/location for this event), a graphic designer, and volunteer coordinator.
Together, we’re making this a reality and I’m so excited.
When I stepped inside the Theatrix Costume House – the site of the old Eaton Stables where horses were prepared for the Santa Claus Parade in the 1900′s – I immediately got the sense that I was in for an interesting night.
One of the sales staff was in the midst of regaling the other participants with stories about how employees have felt “nuzzling” while working, heard whispering voices, and even the distant clomping of horse hooves in the now-metropolitan building.
No, I wasn’t privy to an off-the-wall conversation during store hours – I had signed on to do a “ghost investigation” of the allegedly haunted building with the Paranormal Investigation Society of Toronto. The organization runs a number of investigations at haunted sites all across North America.
Organizers explained to us newcomers – myself, my sister, and three ladies from out-of-town – that core members of this group are interested in finding answers to unexplained phenomenon, whether scientific or otherworldly.
Using various types of ghost-busting equipment you see the professionals using on TV:
- electromagnetic field readers (EMFs), which measure the electromagnetic activity in the air – ie, if it changes, your needle jumps, and that could be a sign of something else’s presence (we had K-II meters). These are the same type I used the previous weekend in Salem, MA with The Boy (but more on my Boston trip in another post :)
- four area cameras
- digital thermometers
- Ouiji board
- tarot cards
- a ghost box,which scans radio stations at a very quick frequency – the idea here is that ghosts can “talk” through it and you can pick up words and phrases
- electronic voice phenomena recorders (uh, a special digital recorder to record creepy otherworldly voices)
- a laser grid – you fire it, it makes crisscrossing lasers, and disruptions will block/move the light
Afterwards, they mainly left us to our own devices to borrow their equipment and conduct our own investigation, guiding us as needed. While the group doesn’t have any upcoming events listed at the moment, I do know they have some in the works they are planning on posting soon, including an overnight trip to an old hotel in Orangeville.
Armed with my trusty Maglight (they turned off all the lights during the investigation), Canon T2i (perfect for catching ghosts with), and a pen and notepad; my sister and I took off to begin our investigation.
At her request, we started with the Ouija board – I played for about 30 seconds before getting thoroughly creeped out and quitting.
I hate Ouija boards.
Next, we got to play with the ghost box – which honestly was probably one of the coolest points. We listened to the frequencies, and heard quite a few creepy whispers – including the name “Emily” and “Em” repeated by a raspy male voice and fluttery, quiet female voice. Turns out, the group before us also heard “Emily” a number of times.

The ghost box, and our notepad of things we heard coming through the static. Ghosts, or really creepy sounding radio announcers?
Coincidence? Rigged tool?
Either way, a shiver went down my spine when I found that out.
We played with Tarot cards – you ask a question to the ghosts out loud, draw a card, and write down which it is. The organizers planned to do a reading based on the drawn cards later. The weird thing here was that on the first page 7 people drew the same 2 cards, my sister included. I was the odd one out – I guess I just don’t have that “ghostly” connection, haha.
The creepiest part of THIS one? The darkened changing room with a giant mirror. Did I mention I ALSO hate mirrors? This stems from thinking I saw shadowy figures in the mirror at my grandmother’s house when younger, and my older cousins then regaling me with stories of evil demons haunting the house.
Yeah, that would stick with a 7 year old!
Needless to say, I never saw the horror movie “Mirrors”!
Next was the best part – it was time to play with the EMF readers and digital thermometers in the costume room. We got mostly level 1′s (low), but in certain areas – like near a purple dress near the front – it did spike to a 3. Near the back corner of the shop, we were getting a flickering 2-3 by a duck hand thing; and it spiked to 4 a few times. The first time was when the subway went by underground (keep in mind this is a top floor of a building), so I’m not sure if the electrical spike from the subway had something to do with it or not – but it did keep flicking to 4 well after the roaring and shaking of the train had passed.
I took a few photos in the costumed area, but none showed anything interesting (besides the drool-worthy costumes, that is! ;) – not even the highly controversial orbs, which I thought I would get a lot of considering the amount of dust in that place!
Something interesting to note – every time our EMF would raise, the digital thermometer would drop – and drop steadily. The lowest it reached in that room was 67.9°F – though I never felt a temperature change personally. And, when the EMF frequency dropped to a 1, the thermometer would do a 180 and start to rise drastically back to “normal” (our starting temperature in that room was around 79°F I believe)
It was steadily dropping while in the back when the level spiked to 4 – we watched it drop for quite some time (it eventually hit 67.9°F), going up slightly every time the level faded to a 1. By the time it hit it’s lowest point, we decided to move on to another area. I’m fairly confident had we stayed, it would have continued to drop.

Scanning for electromagnetic fields - this was when we were getting the spikes to level 4 (out of 5)
Next, we continued our EMF/digital thermometer investigation in the back room – a large, blue, mostly empty room housing a few costumes that had seen a significant amount of activity by other groups (and in the past, as well).
Here’s where things get interesting. The EMF stayed mostly a 1, except for one major “hot spot” where it would spike to 5. It did flicker a little here, and move a bit, but we could typically find it again.
It is possible it could have been some sort of electrical interference, but we checked all our electronics (cameras, phones, lights) and nothing caused a spike. A quick visual investigation told us there were no obvious wires or poles potentially housing wires nearby.
The temperature remained steady, though I did feel a cold creeping up my legs while holding this EMF for the shot – and there were certainly no doors, windows, or drafts nearby. I had not been cold earlier in this room while we were setting up and getting instructions.
I handed the K-II off to my sister, who did the same move around, lose the spot, find it again thing I had just been doing. Once she hit the sweet spot, I made her stand there with her arm in the air like an idiot for a good 5 minutes while I tried to get a good angle showing the 5 lit up lights (they were flicking) and her as well.
While this was going on, once we got a steady red she started to complain she was cold. Very cold. I felt absolutely fine and I was only standing a few feet away. Imagination? A draft? Or something otherworldly? I wasn’t positive either of us were actually feeling cold while holding the meter lit to red, but once I got home and looked through my photos I began to wonder.
If you look to the right of Kait’s hand, there’s a small-ish, green-ish, round spot in the photo. The room was dark, other than the lights on the K-II and my flash, so there was no other light pollution. We had our flashlights turned off. Typically, dust spots in a photo – and after going to Burning Man, I’ve seen a LOT of them – are white. Not green.
As far as I can recall, there was no sequined dressed (and even if there were, would it not make more than one reflection?) or anything else reflective nearby. The green light was thus not angled at anything reflective, and the K-II is not angled in a way it could be creating that dot without a reflective surface in my opinion… and even if it WERE, would there not be other coloured dots as well?
Now, I am not saying this is necessarily anything spooky or evidence of a ghost – but it certainly is curious, and given the fact this photo was taken at the EXACT moment she was complaining of being cold (you can even see her lips slightly parted) it makes me wonder.
And, FWIW, I have other photos taken from a similar angle before, and after, this one – and neither has that mysterious, glowing dot:
Post investigation in this room, we conducted a “seance” in the room – basically forming a circle, and asking the spirits present to light op the K-II in response to questions. It worked – as much as one can assume, at least. To say the very least, it was certainly interesting. The K-II would mostly rest at level 1, occasionally flicking to level 2, and when we asked a question the light would sometimes flick to level 3 in a positive response. A few things to come out of this – the spirit was a man, named Dick (or Richard – which, I should mention, is a name two other groups heard come through the ghost box) and was the original owner of Theatrix (back when it was the Old Eaton Stables).
Two members of the group say they heard a distinct, ghostly whisper coming from the back corner of the room (vacant) while this was going on. Sadly, no one was recording an EVP during this so we won’t ever know what – if anything – was said.
I can’t remember much else that we asked during this part – I was quite tired and half asleep by this time as it was nearly 2 a.m. (and, uh, Oktoberfest was the night before!) but I do recall it was interesting, and a little eerie.
So – was contact really made? I remain partly skeptical, but there was definitely some sort of presence in that room. Not heavy, but it was there. And with the various things that happened - and there were many – I have trouble believeing it was all a coincidence, or could be explained away 100% by science… and I’ll definitely be back on another investigation with this group (though in a different location) to see what happens there.
I should also note – a group went thought Theatrix two weekends before (on Oct 1) and did not have nearly as much activity as we did.
As for that elusive green dot – was it a reflection? Ghost? Dust?
I’ll let you be the judge – I’d love to hear your thoughts/opinions in the comments.































